I took a few sentence out of her latest blog post because it just fits the mood of today.
Yesterday eve I worked on my idea I have in mind since a couple of years, never came up with because I was afraid of being judged.
Some of you followed me since I started to turn homes into castle in June 2019.
I am a Member of Somba, the Online MBA Program for women entrepreuneurs, where I pushed myself go one step further; I joined MOMENTUM.
SOMBA Momentum gives more support and accountability than a mastermind program and still has a built in mastermind experience. It’s the perfect program for those who have started to make money online but don’t have a solid six-figure online business yet and want to be inspired, think big and take action.
Well yes me and my online business aren’t there yet – but I will be.
In this program I am surrounded with wonderful women all over the world, we met in Zurich @SigrunLive, we talk to eachother without crossing borders once a week, we get inspiration from success stories and my mentor and founder of @somba Sigrun, started her journey 5 years ago, today she can call herself a self made millionaire and from many points of view she is the most successful woman in online business in Europe. She is thriving for her boldest project the selfmadesummit event in June 2020 in Iceland where my family and myself will join her and 1000 of others.
If she can do it – I can too.
I am a pattern breaker. You know why?
If I would have listend to all the arguments why I should not do this and online business is crap, I even was asked; can you earn money with this idea” – well you bet. “You wont’t be successful with your idea, you better keep on doing things as before, you have bills to pay” – oh really ?! Do I ?! Phew well I got over it.
These people are comfortzone believer and stuck in very old patterns.
And I am dedicated to break them.
I will be the first self made millionaire from scratch, not only because for the money, but to show the world; if you keep believing in yourself, if you go your way, if you set intentions, if you go for what makes you happy and if you have a vision you can be the CHANGE MAKER and leave a legacy on how to break patterns and live your life however YOU want.
Patterns we have in our and like every other family as well. If I would go up and ask; Do you see a pattern ? I bet no one would dare to raise their hand to agree on the fact we have. We all have these unspoken subconcious envious patterns mostly served on a silver plate decorated with a faulse smile. And they are delegating our lifes each day – because we are afraid to listen and do what our heart is telling us, each and every day.
Reading a blog post I had to agreed on the following facts;
“I’m too much for some people, too loud, too unprofessional, too dedicated ( well, how can you be too dedicated, just asking myself…, but that’s what I heard).
To others I am career driven and a control freak, a planner.
Do you see a trend here? I’am always going to be too much for some and not enough for others.
As women we worry too much about what others people think or what they think they might thinking. We create judgments in our own head. Gosh.
We waist so much time worrying about what others people’s opinions of us are.
We try to fit into everyones ideas and holding back our own desires, way too long, way too much.
But for whom and for what?
Once you’ve decided not to follow the crowd and go your own way – do it with confidence.
It’s your decision and your journey.
Stop comparing yourself.
Stop doubting yourself.
stop beat yourself up for things you think other expect.
Stop doubting your own decisions.
Stop looking over your shoulder.
Stop trying to please everyone else.
Because, people? Well, people are always going to have an opinion. I’m just at the point in my life where I can finally say – LET THEM.
People aren’t always going to agree with you, in fact, some people aren’t going to like you for no other reason than because they can.
Is it fair? No.
But it’s OK.
Don’t be afraid to go against the tide; to do your own thing without question or hesitation.
Do the thing that sets your soul on fire, regardless of what others think.
Be who you were made to be, not who others want you to be.
Because you’re never going to be everyone’s cup of tea, just like I’m not.
But, those people?
They aren’t your people.